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Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Little Napper

Claire is on an absolute roll with refusing naps, and then falling asleep in odd places.  I found her on the couch today after sneaking out of her bed and downstairs to watch cartoons with her brothers.

Awww…… 

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She reminds me of a little tiger cub, all curled up and cozy.

Whad?

Whad?

No, I dode have a code!

Talking fuddy? Who’s talking fuddy?

Me? I am?

Oh. Zorry. I’m just breading drough my moud.

It’s because of dat zmell.

What zmell? You know, that horrible zmell that zpread drough de whole houz, and Vlad had to oped de doors to air everyding oud.

I tode him id was going to zmell really bad and dats why I was zbending all dat time on de computer today – to avoid de job. I dode dink he realized how bad id was.

Vlad says he dinks we zhould have drown everyding in de garbage, tupperware and all. I dink he was right! But instead I dumped id all down de garbage disposal. And now I have to bread drough my moud so I dode drow up.

Dis is a nasty job.

What have I been doing? Oh, you know, just cleaning oud de fridge. 

Peek A Boo!!

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Spring Break

Spring Break has come upon us!

I actually didn't realize it had come upon us until the neighbor boy came over at 9:30 yesterday morning and wanted Spencer to play. When I asked if he didn't have school, he said, "I have Spring Break!" To me this was terrific news because I was already 1/2 hour late in starting my school morning partly because I am still learning the amount of time I have to allow for planning lessons ahead (I was still waiting for my library books to come in) and partly because I wanted to reorganize the way I teach this next chapter before we  dive in. So my  immediate thought was: "Hooray! Then we have Spring Break too!" Want to see what Spencer thought of that?

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So Spencer spent the day playing outside and inside, and worked up a ravenous appetite that lasted into this morning.

I got several things crossed off my to-do list, and in general it was a really pleasant day. This morning I was greeted by the one thing that I was looking forward to the most as spring approached: as I came down the stairs I was met with fresh, cool, early morning air that had found its way inside through the opened window, and even through my socks I could feel the tile floor was cool. Everything was so fresh and crisp and friendly. That’s what I love most about this place this time of year.

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Today I gotta figure out how to make the Ring of Fire, Krakatoa, Mt. St. Helens, and Mauna Loa come alive to my boys. I’m thinking play dough, straws, paint, and then baking soda and vinegar.

The funny thing? The neighbor boy really really wanted us to do home schooling yesterday so he could do it with us. I told him we were going to learn about volcanoes later in the week, so he could come over and help us make a volcano. This is going to be fun!

Monday, March 29, 2010

Not Me! Monday

This week I did NOT forget to put my two year old child to bed for a nap. I did NOT forget to put her to bed after church, and she did NOT crawl into Katya’s swing around 2pm for some bouncy fun time – without a diaper - and literally swing herself to sleep.

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Yesterday she did NOT come in for lunch, again around 2 o’clock, eat her soup, and then promptly turn herself belly-down on her barstool and fall asleep lying there, suspended above the ground.

I, the mother of four, also did go on a streak of forgetting diapers and wipes. I did NOT go to Women’s Night Out with an eight-month-old baby, and forget to take wipes or diapers. My baby did NOT poop through her clothes, and the lady of the house did NOT have to supply wipes, diapers, and a new sleeper for my baby. I also did NOT forget diapers when we took our kids to McDonald’s playland, and the baby did NOT poop in her diaper while we were there. I did NOT have to take her to the van and get wipes, and try to clean out the poopy diaper. I then did NOT line the poopy diaper with clean wipes so she could have a clean surface against her little bum. That was NOT the grossest thing I have possibly ever done with a diaper.

Yesterday I did NOT spend six hours cleaning the basement after my children trashed it. We did NOT pick up every single toy from the floor after not being able to find the floor in the first place. We did NOT throw away four bags of trash, many toys included. We did NOT bring up one bag full of laundry. We did NOT bring up one box of things that belong upstairs. We did NOT sweep up four dustpans of dirt and little trash. I did NOT organize all remaining toys - big toys into two toy boxes, and toy sets into clear boxes. I did NOT throw away all the now-incomplete sets of Skip-Bo, Uno, and math flash cards that literally littered the basement in every possible space. After organizing, I did NOT move all the toys shelves and boxes into the water heater room and then lock the door. That's right! The toys are NOT now in lock-down. The only thing I did NOT keep out (and under my supervision upstairs) are the educational activities like puzzles, logic games, and art stuff. I am NOT carefully considering a system for keeping the toys supervised enough that there are not catastrophic messes to clean any longer. How do you moms out there keep the hurricane-force messes at bay? Any suggestions for me? We cannot have this happening in our house anymore. It's atrocious.

What have you all NOT been doing this week?

Friday, March 26, 2010

Baby gates and things

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because this little angel has finally gone mobile.
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Apparently she missed the memo that said she wasn’t supposed to start crawling two weeks after sitting up.

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For about a week she was on a crawling treadmill, and every time she’d try to take a step forward, her knee would slip back and she wouldn’t actually get anywhere.
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But now she’s figured it out. And we’re so happy about it.
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Really, we are. I just don’t know where I’m going to get my baby fixes after she grows up. My baby…

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Quotes Feb 9- March11

March 11
Me, responding to the incessant, rhythmic thumping on the wall upstairs after we'd put the boys to bed: Who is thumping on the wall?
Spencer: Me. I'm sending a message because Collin wanted me to tell you something, but I said 'No way! I'm not going to break that rule of getting out of bed!' So I'm sending a message through the wall.

March 9:
Collin, holding up his bug cage sorrowfully: Mom, my bugs died...they died because I didn't feed them poop. I need to go get poop from the garage. You know? Where Lizzie pooped in the garage? I need to go get poop from there, because bugs love to eat poop.
Oh, gross.

March 8
Collin to Claire as they kept watch over a dinosaur egg toy that was supposed to hatch when soaked in water: Okay, Claire, I hafta go to the bafwoom. But you watch, and if you see the egg cwack, you just yell, 'Collin, the egg cracked!' Okay?
Claire: Tay
Collin leaves...Claire, two seconds later: Duy (because Claire always calls her brothers "guy" instead of their names)...da edd a-wack!"

March 3
Spencer, at schooltime prayer: Dear God, I pray for Grandma, that you would help them have a safe trip...and please make them wealthy by time they come for Christmas.

Feb. 26
Spencer complaining about Collin from the back seat: Mom, he's up-to-something-ing me!

Feb 25
Spencer, as we were playing restaurant at hot cocoa time before bed, "I'd like hot cocoa, please. Um, make that two: one for me and (pointing to Collin) one for my chap!"

Spencer, waking up slowly on Sunday morning: Oh, I had the biggest dream any person ever had! I dreamt we went to the gym and we got Burger King on the way, and we had french fries, and then we went to the movies and saw "The Princess and the Frog"!
Me, holding back my laughter: Spencer, we did all that last night.

Feb 22
Spencer, after seeing Collin's bum peeking out through the neckhole when Collin put a t-shirt on his bottom half instead of pants: Oh!! That hurts my eyesight!

Feb 20
Spencer, worn out after following me around Target for an hour pushing the second shopping cart: Mommy, I've been REALLY helpful...and I appreciate being able to be helpful, but now....I need a break!

Feb 9
Collin: Mommy, Spencer is scaring me!
Me, reaching into the kitchen drawer and giving him a rolling pin: Here. It's a turbo blaster. When he comes close and is scaring you, just blast him!
Collin thinks he has died and gone to heaven.

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Boycott

I’ve started a one-person boycott. I got so sick of buying laundry detergent, that I decided not to. Simple, eh? You wonder what would possess me to stop buying laundry detergent when we have four kids? Well, take a look at this math:
1 bottle of detergent = $13 x (2 bottles per month) = $26/month
1 bottle softener = $15 x (.66 bottles per month) = $10/month
1 bottle detergent booster =
$13 x (4 bottles per month) x (aggravation*) = $52/month
1 bottle spot-sprayer = $4 x (2 bottles per month) = $8
* aggravation is a priceless item, but a huge factor in this equation
Add this all up, and I’m spending about $100 dollar on laundry soap each month. DID ANYBODY HEAR THAT? (echo, echo echo) $100 dollars a month for laundry soap is ridiculous. And so I stopped. I actually didn’t realized I’d stopped until I had about six loads of laundry piled up, I’d run out of detergent and booster, and I was refusing to go to the store to buy more. Funny how my subconscious took care of that for me!
So how are my clothes getting clean? So glad you asked!
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I actually got wind of this idea from my friend Tiffani on her blog Still Seeking Sanity. But here’s the main idea: You can make your own laundry detergent by mixing the necessary ingredients yourself. What do you need? Soap, stain-remover, and booster.
I got this recipe from the Duggar family website.
It is:

1 Fels-Naptha soap bar
1 Cup - Arm & Hammer Super Washing Soda*
½ Cup Borax
-Grate soap or break into pieces and process in a food processor until powdered. Mix all ingredients. For light load, use 1 Tablespoon. For heavy or heavily soiled load, use 2 Tablespoons. Yields: 3 Cups detergent. (Approx. 40 loads)
*Arm & Hammer "Super Washing Soda" - in some stores or may be purchased online here (at Meijer.com). Baking Soda will not work, nor will Arm & Hammer Detergent - It must be sodium carbonate!!
So, I did exactly as they said, only I used the Sunlight laundry bar instead of the Fels-Naptha. The Sunlight smells divine – so clean and fresh and lemony! I found both the borax and the washing soda at my regular grocery store. I found the laundry bar at Wal Mart. (If you can’t find the washing soda, you can also get sodium carbonate at Wal Mart in the pool care section, or the spa care. I found a product called “Ph Up” which is sodium carbonate, but packaged fancier and costs more than the Arm and Hammer sodium carbonate. But it will work just the same!) I have to admit to making a bit of a change in the recipe, though. I added twice the amount of Borax and Washing Soda, because I knew I would be adding extra to my laundry anyway. So now I just use about twice as much detergent as it calls for, and don’t have to add any extra.
The first thing I noticed was that the soap really washes clean. Even when I just got it on my hands, my hands washed clean with no slippery residue – a good sign. They were squeaky clean! I love that! The next thing I noticed was the delicious smell. Yum – O! My laundry smells like fresh, clean lemons. Mmm.
The laundry itself seems to be getting clean. It comes cleaner than Tide was getting my clothes. The whites may not be quite as bright as with that expensive Stain-Release stuff, but it’s close! I made a double batch of double-strength detergent. It gave me roughly 2/3 a gallon baggie of double-strength detergent. The whole thing cost me about $5 and will last for probably 50 loads. It could be more, but I tend to overdo it with adding the detergent (now that I think of it, I should probably cut down and see what happens. I'm probably wasting my delicious laundry soap. :) )
Next thing I’m trying is vinegar as laundry softener. If that works, I think I will have cut down my laundry bill to 1/10th the price! Maybe less. I couldn’t be happier!

Thursdays with Carmen

I am Thankful for....my children’s creativity. I find that they are spending more and more time doing “projects,” experimenting with coloring and tracing, and drawing the things they imagine…not to mention the two packets of modeling clay we’ve gone through in two weeks. I love seeing them get so engaged in creating things. The bandleaders is Collin, who has recently taken up interior design for my kitchen walls:

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I'm listening to...Our morning music, very happy and soothing and slow-jazzy. Also Claire playing on Katya’s swing, twirling round and round. Funny story about this swing coming in my Not Me! Monday in a few days! What I’m NOT listening to is the mutant canine barking her head off at ME. Thank God – some respite! I wonder if that rat poison had anything to do with it? Just kidding. We did save her from rat poison one time. Sometimes I wonder why. ;)  
Looking forward to...spending June in Phoenix, our annual road/camping trip, and going to SPAIN in April!! Woo-hoo! Speaking of, I haven’t been brushing up nearly as much as I need to. I gotta get on that! The plan for sabbatical in Belgium fell through, but that’s just fine because I’m looking equally forward to staying here – in just one place – and making friends and putting down some roots over the next several months. Praying about...the children of Haiti. In particular, praying about “Tyler, Colton, and Glori,” who are the three siblings the same ages and genders as my oldest three. Also praying for their caretaker, Gertrude Bien-Amie, and the people of Healing Haiti that God would protect them all, keep them safe, provide for their necessities, and that he would teach the children of his love and give them forever families. Also praying that we can fit into His plan for Haiti and these children in any way He sees fit. Lately I’ve also been praying about my own internal world, as my own selfishness has been brought to light more and more often and I’d really like to have more of a servant’s heart, a heart of obedience, and a life that shines as a beacon for God’s love.
What's for Dinner Tonight...Leftovers, anyone? No? Well, then, It’d have to be cabbage rolls (pre-packaged from Superstore!)
Found...A way to hide the Nutella from my ever-sneaky children.

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Missing...Hmm….I’m not sure what’s missing this week. I’m missing my family, if that counts. Missing the times when I could drop by on my friend Paula and sit in her living room for a few hours. Missing seeing that special kind of joy on my kids’ faces when they’re surrounded by people that love them. Does that count? I never thought I’d say this, but sometimes I get homesick. I can’t image what Vlad goes through!

Burning Question of the Week...Would you mothers out there be able to send your nine-month old baby half way around the world with her daddy to spend a week with her grandma, which would also mean weaning her early? I’m just having a hard time letting go to do that. 

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Nevermind

My thoughts this morning as I trudged from my bedroom to the bathroom upon waking: Ugh. Morning. Back hurts. Gotta shower. Love the shower! Claire is sleeping. Vlad is sleeping. Cold in here. Is the heater on? Want to open a window and smell the spring air. Look! There's the world through my little round window. That pine tree looks so beautiful with the snow piled on it like that. I love pine trees with snow. .....wait! Snow?! It snowed?!

We were enjoying the spring, but nevermind.

Monday, March 22, 2010

Spring again!

Ahhhhh....
Do you hear that exhilarated contented sigh? Thats the sound of me in springtime. I love the air this time of year. Its so sweet and fresh, with the the faintest hint of the smell of bonfire. Beautiful long summer days are just around the corner. I love these long and gentle summer days. Bright at 5 am, dark at 10:30 pm. It's like the sun is smiling on us to make up for the interminable winter. The snow is nearly all melted, and although everything is still ugly and brown, the air is so pretty so friendly, so welcoming, that we can't help but smile and wave at the neighbors who are also tinkering in their garages and yards, watching kids jump over puddles and tear around the yard with only hats and light jacket.

We're all enjoying the spring.

Epiphanies

I've had an epiphany. If I hand out chores for my children's offenses such as hitting, being mean or rude, picking on someone, or ignoring Mommy... things shape up incredibly fast. Not only do they stop their bad behavior, but my house gets clean, the boxes in the garage get unpacked, the children get worn out and eat very well and sleep even better. It's a win-win!

Take last night, for example: My children had stored up for themselves quite a few chores to do. We ticked them off, one by one. Any complaining or back-talking or sassing, or melting to the floor in a whining heap, and they'd earn another. By time it was all over an hour and a half later, my floors were swept, dining room mopped, toys picked up, bathroom wiped, kitchen wiped, two boxes unpacked, Vlad's office tidied, windows cleaned, furniture dusted.... It was amazing! And by time it was done, they were avoiding conflict with each other and using words to build up rather than tear down. Then the kids ate rice and veggies like it was the last food on earth, and three of them are still sleeping, 9.5 hours later. I could get used to this!

For those of you who are sitting there and thinking to yourself, "Didn't she have this epiphany just a little while back?" The answer is: "Yes, I did!" See, the thing is that it's so effective that my kids' behavior improves immediately. It improves so much andso thoroughly that I don't have much chance to hand out chores before my chances disappear. So it doesn't become an established pattern. And then it takes a few weeks before I realize once again that their behavior has reached a point I have to do something. And so once again, I have this epiphany.
epiphanies so often.

I bet I make it look easy having epiphaniese this often. :)

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Annabelle's Home Schooling Q&A

I have a vibrant and dear young ballerina friend named Annabelle who is way Down Under. Or is it way Up Over?... Anyway, she's in Australia where home schooling is evidently simply not done. So when we decided to pull Spencer out of school, she pretty much fell off her proverbial pointe. :) (lol I crack myself up!)I offered to answer her questions, and she was gracious enough to think about it and write them all out for me. I've decided to answer them here in case anyone else might have the same questions that I can help answer for them. (Anything marked "Q" is Annabelle's question, and anything marked "A" is my answer, just so ya know!) Here you go, Annabelle, in more detail than you bargained for! :)

Q: I thought from the post that only Spencer was being pulled out to do home schooling. Is there any particular reason you’ve pulled Collin out too?
A: I haven't pulled Collin out. He is only in pre-school two days each week for 2.5 hours each day. We home-school in the morning, then rush to cram lunch into our little (or not-so-little) bellies, put all the kids in the car, and then take Collin to school directly after lunch. On the days when I haven't been able to finish everything with Spencer, I'll just take Collin to school and then come home to finish school with Spencer. But I do have to say that although Collin really enjoys himself in school, it seems to be more of a social outlet, as he is only just now learning colors, shapes, letters and numbers since we've been home-schooling. It's just easier to keep him and Claire busy if I let them school along with us rather than try to keep them occupied with a separate activity.

Q:In Australia, home school is incredibly, incredibly uncommon. Only extremely gifted musical students or similar are ever taken out, and not generally until late high school. Is it common over the pond for people to home school their children? In Australia, students who live out west do School of the Air, on a radio or go to boarding school or some, though it’s no longer very common, get flown into school daily.
A: Home-schooling has become extremely common in the US in the past twenty years. I have to say (as painful as it is for me to admit my age in this way) that nearly twenty years ago when my parents made the decision to pull me out of middle school and home school me, it was not nearly as common. We were part of the vanguard. At that time in Phoenix there were two loosely organized home school associations that didn't offer that much. We were sort of "that home-schooling family." Now today it's become much more common. I know as many home-schooling familes as not - in the States. It's usually associated with conservative Christian families who want to teach their children their own world view and want to avoid certain teachings or institutional attitudes that are taught or generally ingrained in the public school system. However, there are other people who home-school for many other reasons. Some are simly do-it-yourselfers. Some are nonconformists of a more liberal bent. Some choose to home school because their child doesn't fit the typical public school learning style such as a child who is extremely visual, who has extreme ADD, or who has a need to spend hours and hours each day in sports or musical training (child prodigy). Because it's progressed so far, some home schooling associations offer about as much as a typical public school system in the way of academic classes, extra curriculuar classes and activities, sports teams, musical groups, graduation ceremonies, field trips, and social events for families. In Canada the home school situation is basically where it was in the States 20 years ago.

Q: How is home schooling monitored? I know you’d never do this Carmen, but couldn’t some people claim that they’re home schooling their children but not doing anything?
A: Yes, some people could do that. Some people do. I guess it's not unlike how some schools will pass a "difficult learner" through all the grades without ever actually addressing his/her academic difficulties and issues in order to make some progress. Both systems have flaws. It's definitely more difficult to keep tabs on everyone in a home school system. Thankfully, most parents who are home schooling are doing so because they care and are self-motivated. In the state where I grew up, we took a National Standards test every year. Ironically, my score jumped 13% the first year I started home schooling. Here in Canada, we have to send in a semi-annual report on the kids' progress. If the province is unconvined or concerned, they will visit our home and see how he kids are doing. I believe there are also provincial standardized tests that I can have them take to see how they're measuring up. Other families choose to use graded curriculum services where the work is guided and graded by teachers at correspondance schools. This way their children have grades, report cards, transcripts, and very trackable educational development. I find that the type of curriculum I'm using now is very well-suited for young children, but would be extremely difficult to track by a correspondence school. Also, it's not necessary for college-entrance purposes to have transcripts before high school here, so that might be a time that many parents choose to change their curriculum into a more trackable system. Tracking progress is also one huge reason I'm writing the home school blog.

Q: Why didn’t or couldn’t you enroll Spencer into a different public school?
A: I could have enrolled him in a different school. In fact, I could have switched him to the English side of his same English/French Immersion school. The reason we chose to bring him home instead is multi-faceted. First, he was very stressed. I believe the French factor was adding much more stress than we had anticipated, especially for a child who likes to be on top of things, who absolutely must feel well-grounded and secure, and who still has delays with English. Second, he was having difficulty socially. Basically, because of the stress and because he's sensitive anyway, he was hyper-sensitive and although he was developing some friendships (which he really misses now) it was taking a toll on his self-concept as some of the children from his new school who he was continually exposed to were dealing pretty harshly with him (beating on him on the bus, incessantly picking on him just to be spiteful, etc.). He was seeming to settle into this new role of social discomfort, and we wanted to push the reset button before he accepted it. We know he does much better with structured social environments such as Scouts, soccer, Sunday School, and field trips with home school kids. Another factor is that Spencer strongly attaches to those he loves. He had a true love for the children in his other school, and a strong loyalty. He keeps their farewell cards to him and reads them at least once a week. He left that school nearly six months ago! Since he is still sort of in mourning over that, and all the sudden change (new baby, new house, new country, new school, new language) seemed to be the straw that broke the camel's back. I wasn't sure that putting him in yet ANOTHER new environment would be good for him. Both Vlad and I thought making his world smaller would be the right thing for him at this point.

Q: How long do you home school for? Is it a normal 9 – 3 day?
A: No, it's a normal 9-12:30 day. :) We don't have to deal with things like roll call, lunch hour, moving hoards of children in and out of classrooms and buildings, school announcements, and tedious things like passing out papers to 25 kids. Everything we do is more compact and precise, and it takes less time.

Q: Does this mean the kids don’t get homework?
A: They have worksheets that they have to complete, but as we work each subject from start to finish together, they don't have any work to do after we've finished our school day. Spencer does have to do math sheets, penmanship, spelling, and phonics/reading in addition to the group stuff like history and geography. Some he does on his own, and some I'm there helping him with.

Q: Will you home school them forever and ever, or for a year, or until they’re high school age?
A: Technically, we can home school through high school. The original plan was to home school "until he's ready" to go back. We're not sure when that will be, or if we will want to continue home schooling long-term. We'll just have to see... I have to say, though, from a selfish perspective, I hope it's long-term, because I'm enjoying the changes in Spencer, in the family, and the extra fun and productive time I get to have with my kids while they discover the world.

Q: Will you home school Claire as well, when she is of schooling age?
A: We have Collin in a preschool program that we really like. The teachers are great and they are very active with activities, songs, structured play, etc. I plan on sending Claire in the fall. We were planning on sending Collin to French Immersion kindgergarten, but I'm sort of hoping the plan changes, as I really enjoy having him home.

Q: Do you worry about their social skills, because I can definitely see the up side to home schooling and the connection you guys will create but school is a big place of learning social schools and how to cope with the fact that life isn’t fair.
A: I'd worry about their social skills only if they were continually isolated at home, and not interacting with people outside of the home/family. That won't be the case with them, as I've called about soccer and scouts, they go to Sunday school every weekend, they play with neighbor kids every day, and soon we'll be doing outings with a local home school association. I believe they will have plenty of social outlet. Social interaction doesn't have to be at school - it can be anywhere other kids/people are. In fact, I believe that all too often the interraction they get at school is more detrimental than not, ranging in extremes from very structured (class time) to not at all structured (recess time and bus rides) and the kids who have pent up all their energy during class tend to unleash it on each other when they get to recess or on the bus and the result is not pretty. I also know that anywhere people are, the lesson that life isn't fair will be taught and learned, so I don't have to worry if they'll ever get that life lesson.

Q: Are you worried that you guys are going to spend too much time together? What I mean by that is… well maybe I’m seeing it from a teenager view but I’d go insane spending that much time together. And like, if you know, what if you guys have some sort of conflict, where can they go to cool down? Coz I know (again, teenager view) sometimes I love nothing more than getting out of the house in the morning and away from the house for a day.
A: A fair question. First of all, we try to resolve conflicts as they happen instead of letting them fester and draw out. So hopefully that will minimize the number of times we need breathing space. Not to say that those times won't come. I was also home-schooled and had a lot of at-home time. Although I can say that it wasn't always great, especially during the teen years with the desire to be out and the natural edginess that comes along with the age, we only had a few "I have to get out NOW" moments that I can recall. Hopefully we'll be able to maintain enough balance to be able to say the same when our kids are grown.

Q: I know Spencer was having a lot of trouble with bullying etc so I actually do support this decision you’ve made for the time being, but what about school friends and the ability to make friends? I noticed you’re reading with them “How to make friends and influence people” but is it the same as actually being with kids your own age and playing out in the playground at lunchtime with them, learning a sort of independence?
A: No book reading or study of psychology or social skills can take the place of making friends and real hands-on personal interraction. And that's absolutely NOT why I'm going through "How To Win Friends and Influence People." Going through that book is kind of more like storing up for the future...hoping that some of the concepts stick, and as they grow the things they've learned there will be a part of the well that they draw on when dealing with people. But it can't take the place of actually making friends, and I'd never want to take that away from them.

Q: I hope, at this stage, none of my questions sound… I don’t know rude or anything. I am just ever so curious, I’ve heard of home schooling only four times...
- Reference to it in Desperate Housewives, one of the first episodes this little girl says “I’m home schooled. I’m always around”
A: I know this isn't exactly a question, but I just wanted to address this - that home schooling gets a bad rap in the media so often. Esp. those in Hollywood who haven't kept up with the current realities often get their facts turned around. Home schoolers are not necessarily "always around." "Home-educated" kids could in fact be learning in a home-school co-op. They could be attending a conglomeration of classes scheduled by their cargivers but having nothing to do with being at home. They could also spend as much or more time away from home as public-schooled kids. It really has everything to do with personal decision as to how busy they are with extracurricular things. Also, the average home schooled student scores well above the national average on standardized tests. Many top colleges and universities have special recruiters and reviewers specifically for home educated students, who are typically known for self-discipline in study habits and academic excellence.

Q: Do the kids still get things like school holidays? Is it blocked or like could you guys effectively take a holiday, continue schooling or what?
A: We determine our own school schedule. Most people prefer to follow the calendar of the local schools. I plan on taking a more year-round approach with smaller, more frequent breaks throughout the year, and then a shorter summer break. We can effectively take a vacation and continue schooling. This is why we were able to plan on going to Belgium for sabbatical this coming year. (plan fell through) But we also have to keep in mind that its more difficult to stay the course when we're away so we have to be careful about that. But yes, one of the great things about home schooling is the flexibility.

Q: How is it when you have to manage Katya when home schooling?
A: That's definitely a challenge especially as she's teething and Claire likes to "play" with her when I'm not looking. I move her a lot from high chair to bouncer to playpen to floor and finally end up holding her. When all else fails I call a ten minute recess and spend a little time taking care of her needs then continue with school. It's not too difficult. Claire is the tricky one but stickers, markers, puzzles, and Sesame Street go a long way. ;)

Thank you, Annabelle for your honesty and your questions. If you have any more, just ask!

Our Field Trip

This week at our home school was the first week we've used the Weaver curriculum by Alpha Omega. Although it did take me a bit more forethought and planning than I had anticipated, we have enjoyed ourselves and school has been more or less interesting and fun, both for student and teacher. Our first unit is on the general topic of cities, and includes basic geology, topography, map skills, community helpers, and so much more. For a more thorough description of what we've been doing this week, you can visit Our Very Cool Home School Tool. Let's just say, we've had quite a good time doing little projects, talking about interesting things, and not stressing ourselves out doing it! Take a gander at these cute little geologists, ready to go out into the world to explore and experiment!

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The flowers have nothing to do with school - I just like them because Vlad brought them home to me, and I think they're pretty. :) Besides, I got my camera to focus precisely, and so I was really happy with this photo. :)

But I digress....

Yesterday was our first Field Trip Day, and we had quite a time. We went on a driving tour of the city with a few stops along the way. The goal was to learn a bit about the history of Winnipeg, to familiarize ourselves with several of the city's major landmarks, and to see where some of the important utilities of the city are located. The rest of this post is copied from our home school blog:

We first read a book on mapping skills, then took out a map of Winnipeg and traced the route we were going to take during the day. Our first stop was St. Boniface, the oldest part of Winnipeg, and went to the oldest building in Winnipeg which was actually a convent in its earliest days. There we learned about the early settlers and the work done for the area by the nuns and priest of the convent.

The Old Convent today
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The Old Convent as it looked then, brand-new. Amazing how it was just the convent, and the cathedral, and virtually nothing else. Today it’s surrounded by city.

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The Cathedral next door . The stone face of the cathedral is all that’s left of the original. The rest was destroyed in fire. DSC_0135DSC_0134DSC_0138

A view of downtown across the river, from the front of the cathedral walkway.

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The old cemetery on the cathedral grounds.

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Bust of Lois Riel, champion of the Metis people.
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Next we went to the Forks to review the fact that Fort Gary had been built in the vicinity, and that the Forks market building had actually been a train station at some point. There the boys went into a train car that had been turned into a candy store, and picked a treat. We then read a book on city sounds, and then listed together all the sounds we could hear as we sat there in downtown Winnipeg.

The landmark bridge next to the Forks.

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Next we went across the street to the Fort Gary Hotel, which is a beautiful, grand, old hotel in downtown Winnipeg and a city landmark. There we sat in the restaurant, chatted about the railroad, pretended we were people coming into Winnipeg from different places, and paid an absolutely exorbitant amount of money for three scoops of ice cream and a tart.

view of the front entrace from the restaurant
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some ceiling detail in the restaurant

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Collin and his lovely home-made ice cream.
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My tart
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Me and my girlies
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Our server who was at first very stiff, and then warmed up and got into pointing out stuff to make the trip more memorable for the kids.
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The owner’s HUGE MASSIVE GINORMOUS dogs that were lying on the restaurant floor.
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From there we went outside and took a gander at the small section of the Fort Gary wall which still remains in tact.

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From there it was a driving tour. We drove past the Legislative Building, through China town, and then to the train yards. We sang The Thomas Song as we drove over a huge bridge that spans the train yards. We saw cars of all colors and purposes. It was actually a fantastic sight. Then we went to the airport and noted that airplanes don't only take people places, but also transport things like mail. From there we went to the Assiniboine Park and drove around, past the sculpture gardens and the zoo, then went just outside the city to drive past the water treatment plant and the landfill. We also drove past the old residence of Louis Riel, who was champion and leader for the Metis people. On the way home we passed the Canadian Mint. It was quite a day, and we're zonked. But it was a lot of fun, and Spencer seemed to be soaking it all in, making the connections, and was enthusiastic about everything. So it was a really pleasant time.

*Sigh of contentment*

Now to plan next week....

Friday, March 19, 2010

Like a little child....

"Mommy, do you know what I want for Christmas?" If I had a dollar for every time I have heard that in the past three months (since Christmas)I'd be well on my way to being a millionaire. I'm not kidding. I hear it all the time. Yesterday I put a ban on Christmas wishing. My boys are really into their toys, and their wishing, and their planning and their saving. Every chance he's gotten for the past two or three weeks, Spencer has asked me or his dad or his Grandma for "Chaotic." I'm not even sure what it is, but Spencer is tediously saving every penny, and developing quite a stash...

Last night I decided to treat myself and turned on Supernanny to watch while I folded laundry. The boys were watching with me. Spencer wanted to "learn how to be good." LOL While we were watching, a commercial came on for a child sponsorship program and it showed a little boy younger than Collin, leading his grandmother by the hand. She was blind and slowly dying. He had to dig through trash to feed her. His father was dead, his mother had left him. When his grandmother died, he would have no one to care for him. It was very sad and touching - not because I can verify that information, but because we already know there are so many hundreds of thousands of children in very similar circumstances. I looked over at Spencer, and he looked at me, and to my amazement, I saw that he was crying. Not just tearing up, but actually crying, unashamedly, for the plight of the other little boy. I have been so frustrated lately surrounded by so many people that so often turn a blind eye and selfishly hoard wealth as if that wealth hasn't been entrusted to them for higher purposes by the One who holds everything... People who won't fix one problem if they can't fix them all... People who, when faced with one little orphan boy and the desperation of his young life, would rather theorize about imperialism and economic sanctions than meet his needs.. People who won't back up their prayer with action... People who have turned "true religion" into singing in the church choir instead of visiting the orphans and widows in their distress.... As I've been contemplating this, my son's tender heart and his ability to see immediate need touched my heart and renewed my own spirit. I cried with him for little Jaleel, for "Tyler, Colton, an Glori" - my childrens' three "twins" who we pray for every day at schooltime - and for all the children in similar circumstances.

When the commercial was done, Spencer dried his eyes and said to me, "Mommy, I think that's what I'm going to do with my money - I'm going to send it to help that little boy." Tender, open, immediate, unselfish, trusting, willing, and unashamed. This is why God tells us to be like little children.

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

awwwww……


Claire sneaking bits off of the dinner salad last night.
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Katya eating her very first solid food – mashed avocado. She liked it for the first few chunks, then….not so much!
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Oh-so-grown-up Spencer sitting at his dad’s desk, listening on the computer to Pokemon rules.
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My baby stylin’.
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My toddler after stealing the baby’s style.
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Happiness is being on Daddy’s lap. with your favorite blankie.
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Katya’s teeth are bothering her all the time and she wants to be held. Hence, the football hold.
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Yesterday in our house full of toys and crayon wrappings and styrofoam shreds (thanks to the mutant canine), with a baby who is doing her best to army crawl around the house, I had to put her in a laundry basket for safety’s sake. She wasn’t too impressed. . But I thought it was cute. :) 
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